We're all hard wired to be in cognitive disonance about some things regardless, so you're not free from that yourself. Who's to tell who has it more on this case?

From Wikipedia: "cognitive dissonance is the mental stress or discomfort experienced by an individual who ... is confronted by new information that conflicts with existing beliefs, ideas, or values."

Considering I am not being presented with new information that conflicts with my existing beliefs, ideas, or values, I'd say it's almost certainly not me who has it more in this case.