Gonzo, women aren't desperate and driven by testosterone like men are. This is the case not just for humans, but most animals, surely?

It is the man's job to compete for the female and it is the woman's job to make sure that her offspring do not have weak and less than satisfactory genes/traits. It is the woman's job to guide our evolution through natural selection because they are the ones that produce the children. They need to at least be responsible, which is something men often lack. If women were as desperate as men, the human race would devolve incredibly quickly because none of us would have any standards.

Fortunately the existence of women means that at least 50% of us aren't controlled by our sexual organs and the remaining 50% have to at least try to be decent.

I know that in some cultures, people have less respect for women and control them instead, but hey, their people will end up like a bunch of guppies in a shark tank. Fortunately the guppies have a lot of oil, but nobody aspires to be them.